Apologies
Apologies just don't work...
In fact, apologies suck... What good is an apology when the damage has already been done... An apology never brought back the dead... an apology did not bring happiness ... and an apology certainly did nothing about the pain...
All an apology did, was to make the victim accept the truth, make one accept the fact that nothing will be done to reverse what happened... In fact, nothing CAN be done...
To me, an apology only feels like one human pleading for just being so HUMAN. So that he could have another chance... at being human again... Punishment is a must... Forgiveness is the best...
I feel lonely, and stuck,in a pit,
blood and bodies everywhere...
bodies of those, who made mistakes, and apologized...
bodies of those, who will never learn or understand...
bodies of those, whose victim I was, am and will be...
I choose to forgive them all... They are all, just so human...
They say : To err is human, to forgive is divine...
To forgive and NOT forget... is me.
Nothing will be forgotten... Nothing...
In fact, apologies suck... What good is an apology when the damage has already been done... An apology never brought back the dead... an apology did not bring happiness ... and an apology certainly did nothing about the pain...
All an apology did, was to make the victim accept the truth, make one accept the fact that nothing will be done to reverse what happened... In fact, nothing CAN be done...
To me, an apology only feels like one human pleading for just being so HUMAN. So that he could have another chance... at being human again... Punishment is a must... Forgiveness is the best...
I feel lonely, and stuck,in a pit,
blood and bodies everywhere...
bodies of those, who made mistakes, and apologized...
bodies of those, who will never learn or understand...
bodies of those, whose victim I was, am and will be...
I choose to forgive them all... They are all, just so human...
They say : To err is human, to forgive is divine...
To forgive and NOT forget... is me.
Nothing will be forgotten... Nothing...
posted by LeeB at 9/02/2006 10:21:00 AM
2 Comments:
if somebody was to apologise and then probably do the same thing again.. it might just mean that he/she is having difficulty in letting you know that 'this is me' and id love of you to 'accept' me the way i am, cos its important for me to know that you would like me still. Whether the fact that doing so is 'being human' is a huge judgement... and if i may add by being so cynical about 'people'and being judgemental you are being no less a'human' yourself...., irrespective of the fact that u forgive 'humans' or not!
Hmmm... Interesting thought there...
if one was to repeatedly do the same thing after apologising about having done it, then this person is "just the person" and i must just accept the person... Cool...
:-), unlike most humans, I choose not to react...
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